Dating for Love Match & Relationship Simplified

Madge,

Should I take my date to watch Harry Potter?


Simon, NY

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Simon,

Taking date out for Harry Potter will be good if she’s a die heart fan. If it is a YES, and you are not, please do your homework by reading the perhaps ‘simplified’ version. At least you wouldn’t feel left out after the movie. It may well be good also that you get the DVD of earlier versions to watch together prior to watching the movie of which you have at least 5 DVDs already to start with.

Watching movie is always a good start for relationship as it gives you  more topics to discuss later. It also eases your nerves especially if this is your first date! 

Good luck!

luv,

madge

Madge,

Have been following your posts recently. Wonder how you think about dating a married man? 

lovesick, Miami

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I will just shoot straight for now. Being a woman and in and out of relationships, I understand where you came from. Then again, this probably is no new to you – how would you feel if your husband is seeing somebody else during your marriage? If you find it hard to swallow, chances are, she is feeling it now. 


You know my answers to this: Get Out. 

Let me take you through things that you have to take into account:

1. The odds are not in your favor, at all. Why?

2. There are high possibilities he will stay will his family, especially when he has children.

3. We always indulge in all these luvy duvy belief that love only matters between the both of you, in reality, this is not the case. Don’t let the hollywood trick you into this.

4. If you believe in karma, you know it’s not going to do you any justice.

5. Most realistic point, you will have a lot of damage control exercises to do, not only to his children for wrecking up the family, but also your own family.

Plenty of fishes in the sea my dear, get out and get real!

luv,

Madge.

Many people have asked me many times, how do I know whether he or she is the right one for me? As I have introduced in my earlier post, compatibility is very important. Know your inner needs – Are you?

1. Fun;

2. Security; and/or

3. Recognition driven.

Some are more prominent than the others. There are generally, 2 personality traits you show to people – the ‘nice and happy’ you, and the ‘not so nice and unhappy’ you. In life, either you are happy or you are not happy. Feeling neutral is a form of ‘happy’. Did you know that both emotional states are just different sides of the same coin? This means that if you know what is ‘flipping’ that emotional coin making you happy in one situation and unhappy in another you will be in control of what you want to be! You can now choose to be unhappy, grumpy, nervous, insecure, or just the opposite – at will! The big difference is you know why, when, and how to do it. It’s truly that simple. When your emotional coin is heads-up you have a winning attitude; Coin shows tails – you got a loser’s attitude.  If you want more successful dates; friends and life partners you need to be heads-up most of the time.  How can you possibly do that and stay human? Here’s the secret. The thing flipping your emotional coin has to do with 3 universal INNER NEEDS that are common to every human being – you, me, your ideal match – yes every human being is driven by one or a combination of these 3 INNER NEEDS as listed above.

Online dating is definitely one of the better, if not already the best ways of finding your true love, match and lasting relationship for singles without you stepping outside of your comfort zone. Nobody knows who you are and don’t hold back. You just need practices. But sadly most singles looking for the love match of their lives never find them. And the reason is simple. You have to be very realistic when it comes to identifying what your inner needs are. When your Inner Need is being met you show your good self. If not, you show your not so nice self. For example, if your Inner Need is FUN and your date loves to try and explore new experiences you will be mostly happy! But if your date or partner happens to be cautious and conservative and not willing to try new things no matter how hard you try to convince otherwise then you are going to show displeasure and frustration.

It is the situations you find yourself in that determines your emotional coin. If you seek SECURITY and are put in a position where things are uncertain and beyond your control you are no longer going to show the nice side of you.

But what triggers your emotional flip switch?

If you know this and are in control of the switch you can be the most desired person to be with! And of course date or have a lasting relationship! And, If you are still overdrawn by physical attraction, you don’t need a genius to tell you that it ain’t going to last. To avoid possible mistakes and unnecessary frustration. Just sign up our FREE newsletter and you can now get a FREE preview to our e-LoveQuickie.

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Revealing the secrets of the Professional’s 9 sections method – what can you tell from his/her picture?

Day Zero: She’s THE ONE! God sent.
Day 1: She’s absolutely PERFECT!
Day 2: Oh man… I’m just so lucky to know her!
Day 3: Can’t wait to get to know her more!
Day 4: She’s such an angel!
Day 5: She’s just so sweet to me.
Day 6: Yes, I want to spend the rest of my life with her.
Day 7: How’s she like as a mother?
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Day 8: Can’t get enough of her
Day 9: She’s so fun to be with
Day 10: She needed me
Day 11: I needed her
Day 12: Hmm.. she needs to go shopping again
Day 13: She’s great
Day 14: She wants to be treated like a queen.
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Day 21: Maybe I can try to change her?

So after all the chemistry, sparkles and flying away, reality bites. How can you avoid dating a pure evil bitch – date of hell? Before pouring yourself heavily in the shower of love, try to take day 1 or 2 at least, to understand her a little better. But having said that please don’t confuse a real bitch with someone who’s domineering that has particular reason that she genuinely believes so, they are not the same.

You know you are dating a Bitch, when you feel:

1. you are still holding your torch for someone else, unknowingly. Please do not hold onto her if you are still waiting for the next one to come along, not only it’s NOT right, it is also unfair. You do not want to leave yourself a room for her to bite back!

2. she’s totally SHE and HERSELF only. In other words, in this whole wide world she’s the only one that matters, i.e. how she feels, what she does and who she is. Much as she would love to be treated like a queen, you seriously do not have to put up with this. Guess what, girls like that, they are usually so damn good in finding their victim, the super, duper, ultra great Mr. New Age Sensitive and Nice Guy! At first you thought you should give her all the attention because you are trying to show how much that you love her, thereafter, she’s all that matters only. You will soon find yourself draining and over-taxed by her torrent flow of emotions and herself.

3. you’re no longer in touch with your buddies. Why? Research shows that guys generally have better best friends than girls. If girls can’t find their boyfriends, chances are 10 out of their male best friends would know where they really are compare to girls’. So the bitches will ensure all these avenues are CUT OFF completely so that they really know every minute, every second – where you are. NEVER EVER subscribe to those mobile GPS tracking where she’s always ONE thumb request away from where you are.

4. you are never good enough. You start to feel so ‘small’ about yourself and in everything that you do, you always attract yourself unnecessary criticism and worse still, she NAGs! Sometimes you’re even treated like a trash. She embarrassed you in the public (not in a very funny way) and you can’t get better if she publicly flirt in front of you… oh man, if she’s doing this to you, just leave, will ya? That’s what I would call it – Man Slavery!!

5. your family members no longer say much to you. This is one of the big tale tell signs! To respect your ‘choice’, they do not say much anymore.

So, don’t waste your time on her before the cut gets too deep! She’s NOT your true love, forget about the relationship, it will never last.

GET OUT and GET A LIFE!!

While you are preparing for your profile, please do take some time to take some great photos of yourself. Pictures speak a thousand words about you. It amazes me always that people spend hours choosing the colors and design for their clothes, or even pay hundreds to designers for some fancy outfit and accessories, and then they add a duff photo which does them no justice at all. So in setting up your online dating profile, you need a personal photo because people are curious about you! Take aside all the words and writings first, think about the time when you have to scan through millions of profile, YOU are the most unique part of you. So how can you make sure you get an irresistible photo that communicates who you are and speaks directly to your desire audience?

1. You may need professional help.

2. Get your hair done.

3. Think about the image you want to portray. Just be true to yourself. 

4. Ensure that you look into the lens! 

If you’re still having problem, watch the following clips, give you some good ideas: 

Good luck!

Love waits for no one. Including you.

Online Dating has changed the rules of a love and match. In the past people chance upon their partners physically in the office, parties, clubs and social settings. Today, things are happening a lot quicker online. Your perfect match is most probably registered in an Online Dating Service right now. This means he or she is going to get matched sooner rather than later. The chances are you are missing out on the love of your life, right now.

To get matched you need to be registered. To be successful you need to know how to master the rules of dating success. We will help you with the latter but not the former. We can’t register on your behalf! So what are you waiting for?

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Love Match & Relationship.

Online dating is one of the best ways of finding your true love, match and lasting relationship for singles. But sadly most singles looking for the love match of their lives never find them. And the reason is simple. You have to be in a love game to win your true love!  Today, with online dating things are speeded up. When everyone else is going online to get matched, don’t sit at home and think that your ‘dream girl/guy’ will just come and knock at your door! We can be our own matchmaker with just a few clicks – right clicks, of course!

How?

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Love can happen quicker and better. We started this site because we are also online daters, that’s why we know all the frustration and heartaches that most of you have gone through. How many times you just can’t help yourself but wonder – Why is it so hard to find your Mr. Right or Ms. Perfect? Read this e-LoveQuickie, as we have simplified Online Dating for you – Keeping you focus and know who you want in your love life today! Quick, love does not wait, it just happens!

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