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Madge,

I met this guy online via Parship and have been dating him for over a month now. For some reason, I am just not sure about it. What should I do?

Jen, UK

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Jen,

For what you are going through is nothing new. Many people have that anxiety especially going out with someone you met online. It is worthwhile to spend some time before you jump to any conclusion since you have decided to give him a chance. Have you actually met him yet?


Online dating has helped many people throughout the years in ímproving their chances to meet the right person sooner. Nevertheless, virtual life is very different from living in together. Perhaps you should try to meet him up few more occasions to find out more. It is still too early to tell whether or not it will work out. As you may know, it is always 50:50. The rest it is for both of you to work it out together. Spend a week or two to try understanding each other better before you decide to close the door.

Good luck! Keep us posted!

luv,

Madge

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Hi Madonna,

I am a newbie in Online Dating. What’s your take on this?

Tommy, iowa

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Tommy,

Honest answers – it functions like our bulletin board services designed to give people another channel to know each other online. The normal procedures involve is that they get you to fill up really long questionnaires and to create an irresistible profile so that you can be matched with your ideal match.If you are one of those who believes love happens at first sight, it is easier for you to accept online dating concept. 

Generally, they are not costly. Oh well, people pay to reach genuine people just like you, because there are already over millions of daters online today. That perhaps help you to filter out those who are more seriously in pursuing love and happiness. If you want to get yourself started, just check out the list on our right column as they are all FREE to sign up. But having said that, please read all the fine print carefully. Whatever that applies in the real world, please apply them online too. A lot of FREE sites offer women FREE registration to women but not for men or sometimes both. They  may charge you when you try to contact your ideal match. If you are seriously serious about this, it may be worthwhile for you to take your time (during weekend?) to sit through those personality and compatibility tests. (They are painfully long, unfortunately) Before I forget, you can join more than one dating sites.

Other things that you should be wary of is that there are quite number of people who are already committed in relationship, nevertheless still sign up (let’s not bothered by whatever their reasons are), do try to avoid getting into complicated situations. Also, lies and fake pictures are very common among the online dating community.

Remember, rules applied in the real world should be applied online too! Other than that, just be honest!

Always,

Madonna

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Many people have asked me many times, how do I know whether he or she is the right one for me? As I have introduced in my earlier post, compatibility is very important. Know your inner needs – Are you?

1. Fun;

2. Security; and/or

3. Recognition driven.

Some are more prominent than the others. There are generally, 2 personality traits you show to people – the ‘nice and happy’ you, and the ‘not so nice and unhappy’ you. In life, either you are happy or you are not happy. Feeling neutral is a form of ‘happy’. Did you know that both emotional states are just different sides of the same coin? This means that if you know what is ‘flipping’ that emotional coin making you happy in one situation and unhappy in another you will be in control of what you want to be! You can now choose to be unhappy, grumpy, nervous, insecure, or just the opposite – at will! The big difference is you know why, when, and how to do it. It’s truly that simple. When your emotional coin is heads-up you have a winning attitude; Coin shows tails – you got a loser’s attitude.  If you want more successful dates; friends and life partners you need to be heads-up most of the time.  How can you possibly do that and stay human? Here’s the secret. The thing flipping your emotional coin has to do with 3 universal INNER NEEDS that are common to every human being – you, me, your ideal match – yes every human being is driven by one or a combination of these 3 INNER NEEDS as listed above.

Online dating is definitely one of the better, if not already the best ways of finding your true love, match and lasting relationship for singles without you stepping outside of your comfort zone. Nobody knows who you are and don’t hold back. You just need practices. But sadly most singles looking for the love match of their lives never find them. And the reason is simple. You have to be very realistic when it comes to identifying what your inner needs are. When your Inner Need is being met you show your good self. If not, you show your not so nice self. For example, if your Inner Need is FUN and your date loves to try and explore new experiences you will be mostly happy! But if your date or partner happens to be cautious and conservative and not willing to try new things no matter how hard you try to convince otherwise then you are going to show displeasure and frustration.

It is the situations you find yourself in that determines your emotional coin. If you seek SECURITY and are put in a position where things are uncertain and beyond your control you are no longer going to show the nice side of you.

But what triggers your emotional flip switch?

If you know this and are in control of the switch you can be the most desired person to be with! And of course date or have a lasting relationship! And, If you are still overdrawn by physical attraction, you don’t need a genius to tell you that it ain’t going to last. To avoid possible mistakes and unnecessary frustration. Just sign up our FREE newsletter and you can now get a FREE preview to our e-LoveQuickie.

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Revealing the secrets of the Professional’s 9 sections method – what can you tell from his/her picture?

Avoid the Common Mistakes and Start to Stand out from the Crowd!

Next to signing up the Dating Sites, you need to write an online dating profile so that you can date more girls or boys, and hopefully sometimes you can get more play. As Ernest has highlighted before in his e-LoveQuickie – Love’s a Pitch, it is extremely crucial to know what your inner needs are before you start approach your dream match. You and I, we are not new to internet dating sites anymore, we have seen thousands, perhaps millions of online dating profiles for both men and women that are poorly written, in brief, just boring, bad and real bad. So what I am going to do here is to list out what common mistakes that people do when it comes to online dating profiles and of course, we need solutions to that.

If you have time to really do a more thorough research, before you start to fish, it’s worthwhile to understand and analyze the source’s conditions and know what sort of fish you are trying to get – we need to prepare the right hook and the right bait. As we all have one, single purpose – we are looking for our dream match! Without us knowing, there are so many online dating profiles communicate things that you wouldn’t want your target match to think about you. So other than know your inner needs, and know what you want in a woman, you should next tailor your plan and strategy carefully so that it clearly communicates your style:

1. Fun Seeking match: If you are driven by Fun, and have decided to go for Fun driven match, when you write your profile, put your effort in ‘how’ you write it. i.e. write as you are talking, fun things that you’ve come to enjoy most and etc. If you are stuck, what you can do is to go and see what your potential ‘competitors’ are doing to give you a head start!

2. Security Seeking match: To attract Security Seeking idea partner, you may need to flaunt a bit of what you have, i.e. your qualifications, experience and so forth. This is handy.

3. Recognition Seeking match: When you are sure to go for this match, it is probably good to write a bit about your past achievement and depth of exposure. He/she will know it. But, please don’t brag!! that’s a big NO NO!

Before I forget, I will give you some tips, perhaps you have heard it many times, it’s easy to say than have it done!


Quick Profile Tip 1: Study the Profiles

Be sure to login to your favourite dating sites and read what others, perhaps share similiar inner needs with you, see what they are writing and ask yourself, would you get attracted by it? What are the things that they keep you reading/ not reading? Just don’t write things like “I am an easy-going guy” or “happy go lucky guy who likes to have fun…” Come on! Everyone likes to have fun!

Quick Profile Tip 2: Descriptive writing

It maybe good to write things to get people imagine instead of just blurting out facts about yourself. Write something instead that people don’t usually know about you. You are unique, so there must be something that you can write about yourself! For instance if you really like cooking, don’t just writing something that “My friends say I am a good cook.” Who would believe that? Just describe some of the dishes perhaps that are your specialties? Break them down in details, and describe them in details too.

Quick Profile Tip 3: Don’t lie

Never go and brag or write something that is totally not you. If you don’t like people to lie to you, so please don’t do it.

Happy Dating!

While you are preparing for your profile, please do take some time to take some great photos of yourself. Pictures speak a thousand words about you. It amazes me always that people spend hours choosing the colors and design for their clothes, or even pay hundreds to designers for some fancy outfit and accessories, and then they add a duff photo which does them no justice at all. So in setting up your online dating profile, you need a personal photo because people are curious about you! Take aside all the words and writings first, think about the time when you have to scan through millions of profile, YOU are the most unique part of you. So how can you make sure you get an irresistible photo that communicates who you are and speaks directly to your desire audience?

1. You may need professional help.

2. Get your hair done.

3. Think about the image you want to portray. Just be true to yourself. 

4. Ensure that you look into the lens! 

If you’re still having problem, watch the following clips, give you some good ideas: 

Good luck!

Love waits for no one. Including you.

Online Dating has changed the rules of a love and match. In the past people chance upon their partners physically in the office, parties, clubs and social settings. Today, things are happening a lot quicker online. Your perfect match is most probably registered in an Online Dating Service right now. This means he or she is going to get matched sooner rather than later. The chances are you are missing out on the love of your life, right now.

To get matched you need to be registered. To be successful you need to know how to master the rules of dating success. We will help you with the latter but not the former. We can’t register on your behalf! So what are you waiting for?

Can’t make up your mind what to do first? A chicken and egg problem? We make things simple. Just “F” the chicken. “F” the chicken to get more chickens. So, get going on both! Get registered on one of our recommended online dating services below now! It’s FREE to register any way. There is no risk at all but a lot of upsides! You are on your way to get dated and mated!

To help you get ahead, below are our experts’ recommendations of online dating services. No, you will not see a long long list! Just our favourites we highly recommend to you. 

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Love’s a Pitch! Good Luck!

Love Match & Relationship.

Online dating is one of the best ways of finding your true love, match and lasting relationship for singles. But sadly most singles looking for the love match of their lives never find them. And the reason is simple. You have to be in a love game to win your true love!  Today, with online dating things are speeded up. When everyone else is going online to get matched, don’t sit at home and think that your ‘dream girl/guy’ will just come and knock at your door! We can be our own matchmaker with just a few clicks – right clicks, of course!

How?

We simplify this for you with our very own e-LoveQuickie- Love’s a Pitch… Secrets Top 5% of successful daters know that you don’t - How to write an Irresistible Profile, which is worth USD37! Go to our Expert’s Pick page to read more. 

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Love can happen quicker and better. We started this site because we are also online daters, that’s why we know all the frustration and heartaches that most of you have gone through. How many times you just can’t help yourself but wonder – Why is it so hard to find your Mr. Right or Ms. Perfect? Read this e-LoveQuickie, as we have simplified Online Dating for you – Keeping you focus and know who you want in your love life today! Quick, love does not wait, it just happens!

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